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  • Its not easy being mean
    My So Called Life,  The Mother Hood

    It’s not easy being mean

    December 29, 2011 /1 Comment

    Every fight in our marriage is about one kid. His. While he was at his mother's for Christmas we had not one argument. Now he's coming home. Ugh — it's not easy being mean.

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  • Pool of Trouble UGMR
    My So Called Life,  Marital Hiss

    Pool of Trouble

    February 26, 2010 /No Comments

    He deployed and left me with a pool I'd never maintained. It turned green. I sent him photos of everything except the backyard which contained the pool of trouble.

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  • haze gray matter
    Marital Hiss,  My So Called Life

    Haze Gray Matter

    July 25, 2008 /No Comments

    I think the most irritating thing about my dear military husband is that he likes to pretend that I don’t know what he is up to. Let me explain: I took a short trip this past weekend to visit my mother. He was supposed to have been on that trip, but his ship’s schedule changed at the last minute so he had to stay behind to get underway while I was gone.

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  • Marital Hiss

    On Being Married

    January 26, 2008 /No Comments

    I've been married almost 8.5 years and I am not the person I used to be. If I'd known what years one through seven would look like, I'd have run.

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  • It's Mother's Day - happy
    Marital Hiss

    It’s Mother’s Day…Happy?!

    May 14, 2007 /No Comments

    I don't know why I bother to hope for better holidays. What's the point of Mother's Day?

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