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  • Divorced. Now what?

    Surprise! You’re a Douche…

    December 19, 2014 / No Comments

    Just when I think that it’s safe to believe I can treat mr horrible like a mature human being, he gives me tangible evidence that he is still the same undeveloped man-child that I left behind…

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    Divorced. Now what?,  My So Called Life

    My So Called Summer — Pt 2 — Crap Covered Walk Down Memory Lane

    December 5, 2014 / No Comments

    December is hurtling towards January at ludicrous speed.  Which brings me to finish my recap for the summer of 2014. Given the general shitty-ness of what happened in Virginia, my kids have nothing good to say, and what they could say is probably not worth sharing.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Just Saying No to Post-Divorce Dating

    October 2, 2014 / No Comments

    Everyone assumes you'll start dating after divorce. I'd rather take a nap. On opting out of post-divorce dating and why that's a completely valid choice.

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    Divorced. Now what?

    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead…

    October 2, 2014 / No Comments

    My immediate reaction after the divorce was to change my Facebook status to “Widowed” because changing it to “divorced” just wasn’t final enough for me.

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    Divorced. Now what?

    Step-Mothers Get No Respect: Reflections on the Major Suck that is Step-Parenting

    October 1, 2014 / No Comments

    No one ever gives step-parents any props. For the most part, being a step-parent is either stigmatized or shrouded in mystery, never idolized. I experienced both the stigma and the misunderstandings. Even now, a year after I’ve relinquished the role, it still sucks that I got no respect for my tenure as someone’s step-mother.

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