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    Smartphones and the Art of Listening

    September 15, 2013 / No Comments

    The other day one of my professors attempted to teach one of my classes a lesson on how to listen. The gist of the lesson being that not everyone listens as well as they think they do.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Reluctant Step-Parents Anonymous (RSA),  The Mother Hood

    Working My Nerves

    September 14, 2013 / No Comments

    Even after the divorce the ex continues to pin the blame for random things on me. He is working my every last nerve.

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    Divorced. Now what?

    Failure Is Not an Option…

    September 10, 2013 / No Comments

    So I have a goal for the end of this month: to feel (and noticeably look) more fit. I would like to be able to say that I am only motivated by personal improvement… but I’m not that noble! Mr Horrible is arriving for a visit, and Lord knows I don’t want to be found worse off than when I left! I gained 20 lbs since I moved here to Texas. I know I sank into an unhealthy depression, after the big move, the trauma from the move, and emotions (mine and the children’s) crashed on me all at once. It doesn’t make me feel better to see the evidence…

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    Navigating Uncharted Waters…

    September 8, 2013 / No Comments

    My new apartment is a brave new world. It dawned on me, as I sat in my most recent Craigslist acquisition, that I am really doing it! I am making my apartment my home.  It helps that my belongings, which until recently had been in storage in New Jersey, are inbound, thereby bringing closure to my move West. It’s official, I now have NOTHING left that ties me to that black hole (aka NJ).

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss,  The Mother Hood

    Grown Men Masquerading as Children

    September 7, 2013 / No Comments

    Reflections about having a man pretending to be incompetent to get out of parenting his children and the strain it created in the marriage.

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