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    You’re the Firestarter, Twisted Firestarter

    June 15, 2020 /No Comments

    Two kinds of people in your life: firefighters who kill your momentum, and firestarters who build it. My mother is a firefighter. I finally have a word for it.

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    Alone versus Lonely

    December 26, 2019 /No Comments

    After years alone post-divorce, I had to ask myself: am I at peace with my solitude, or am I just afraid? Here's how I'm trying to tell the difference.

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    Merry Christmas to Me – the Gift of Peace

    December 25, 2019 /No Comments

    I didn't invite my mother and brother for Christmas this year. My mother tried everything to get invited. I woke up at noon and felt nothing but peace. Merry Christmas to me.

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    Stepped Over the Line – Disrespecting My Boundaries

    December 17, 2019 /No Comments

    I texted my brother to say I wasn't coming to work. That should have been the end of it. It was not the end of it.

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    Conflict of Interest Pt 1: The Lawnmower Man

    December 11, 2019 /1 Comment

    My mother set me up with a lawnmower guy. He did good work. He also sent unsolicited pictures and became obsessed. The grass still needs cutting, so here we are.

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