Life After Divorce, 2555 Days Later
Seven years divorced, and I haven't dated once — not because I couldn't, but because I chose not to. Here's what life after divorce actually looks like.
Picking Up the Pieces of Things Lost in the Divorce: Battlestar Galactica
He weaponized everything I loved, used it against me. Battlestar Galactica was mine first. It took 7yrs after the divorce before I could watch it again.
Decay of a Decade: Looking Back and Setting Better Goals
It is that time of year – the day before the New Year, time to take stock and plan ahead. In particular, it is time to evaluate the last 10 years and figure out how to better approach the years to come. I figure I can’t do much worse than I already have, what do I have to lose?
Alone versus Lonely
After years alone post-divorce, I had to ask myself: am I at peace with my solitude, or am I just afraid? Here's how I'm trying to tell the difference.
2020 – Hindsight and the New Year
2009: unhappy marriage, SAHM, church choir. 2019: divorced, dream job, five cats, paying my own bills. Feels like I am doing better. Room for improvement, but that's ok.




