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  • Divorced. Now what?

    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead

    October 2, 2014 /No Comments

    mr horrible treats co-parenting like an extension of the marriage. I changed my Facebook status to Widowed because Divorced wasn't final enough. Pretending he's dead is a coping mechanism, not a lie

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    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Relationships Bite: Am I Doomed?

    September 29, 2014 /No Comments

    What if mr horrible was my soulmate? I almost ran off the road. Then I came to my senses — but the thought that replaced it wasn't any better.

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    Song of the Day

    September 19, 2014 /No Comments

    Today's song of the day. Amy Winehouse, Love is a Losing Game. Some songs say everything you can't.

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    Tales of an Outsider

    September 2, 2014 /No Comments

    Nobody wants to hang out with the person going through a divorce. Feeling like an outsider at work, and the exhausting math of having nothing relatable to share.

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    Holding on for Dear Life

    August 18, 2014 /No Comments

    Song of the day that is my coping mechanism for the repetitiveness of my current life.

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