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    Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    Divorced – My Secret Identity

    June 10, 2014 /No Comments

    Most people don't even know I was married. And those who find out are surprised it was that bad. My divorce happened — it's not who I am.

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    People Problems

    June 1, 2014 /No Comments

    Summer school with classmates ten years younger and no baggage. I'm a single mom with twenty years of regret. The disconnect is real and mostly self-imposed.

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    Divorced. Now what?,  The Mother Hood

    Grab Your Emotional Baggage – It’s Time for a Guilt Trip!

    April 17, 2014 /No Comments

    My son asked why I don't cook at home anymore. I had three hypotheses: post-divorce rebellion, depression, or all of the above. Pack your emotional baggage it's time for a guilt trip. Let's go!

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    Be Still My Traitorous Heart

    April 12, 2014 /No Comments

    A classmate walked into my office and my brain stopped functioning entirely. I'm a grown ass woman. He's just a dude. My limbic system apparently did not get the memo.

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    For Once Let Me Lose Myself

    March 13, 2014 /No Comments

    I walked out of my marriage but I'm still trapped inside it. I found a man exactly like my father. One day I will be free.

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