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    My So Called Life

    Here Comes the Rain Again

    June 10, 2026 /No Comments

    The rainy season in Guatemala, like life, is late to arrive, fast and hard when it comes, and in charge of nearly every plan I try to make.

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  • My So Called Life

    Wheel of Misfortune: I’d Like to Solve the Puzzle

    May 19, 2026 /No Comments

    Spent a month in a slump with no obvious cause. Turns out my tone-deaf best friend was the puzzle. A reckoning with friendship asymmetry in midlife.

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  • Midlife Musings

    Time Flies When You’re Not Having Fun

    February 28, 2026 /No Comments

    Twelve years ago I wrote about the Year of the Horse. Time flew and I wasn't having fun. I was hopeful in 2014. I'm exhausted in 2026. Here we go again.

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    Sunday Bloody Sunday

    February 22, 2026 /No Comments

    My mother tried to gaslight me about my own period over breakfast. It went downhill from there. Welcome to Guatemala!

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  • Midlife Musings

    Midlife Crisis Management – Steering Back Onto the Road

    February 10, 2026 /No Comments

    Somehow 20 months later, I am managing another midlife crisis, and have moved to another country. What happened?

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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