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  • Divorced. Now what?

    A Lame Excuse By Any Other Name, Is Still Lame

    April 19, 2013 /No Comments

    When your ex forgets your birthday and somehow makes it your fault, that's not an oversight — it's passive aggression. Recognizing the manipulation is a win.

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    Ignorance Isn’t Bliss

    April 17, 2013 /1 Comment

    A friend asked how to find proof her husband was cheating. The real question isn't how to find the evidence -- it's deciding what you'll do when you have it.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Recompense of a Liar

    April 15, 2013 /No Comments

    He lied to me for 14 years and then expected the truth when it counted. I kept every divorce plan from him because payback is a bitch.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Marital Hiss

    Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire…

    April 12, 2013 /2 Comments

    He admitted to his affair partner that he never told me the truth — not once, not in 14 years. On discovering you've been married to a stranger the entire time.

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    Low Blow

    April 11, 2013 /No Comments

    He said my contributions were negligible. We were both active duty Navy and I'd made rank faster. On marital misogyny and the satisfaction of leaving anyway.

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