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    Midlife Musings,  Movie Musings

    Fever Dream – Ghosts from My Past and Watching Bandersnatch

    January 17, 2019 / No Comments

    I have a weird quirk where sometimes the more popular something is, the more I resist jumping on the bandwagon. Some latent habit left over from my rebellious youth ? A remnant of anti-establishment feelings that never really disappeared, perhaps?

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    To Be or Not to Be… Friends with the Ex

    March 1, 2016 / No Comments

    I wonder if I can be friends with my ex. Should I even be friends with the ex?

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  • how to cope through post divorce interactions with the ex - when we pretend that theyre dead
    Divorced. Now what?

    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead…

    October 2, 2014 / No Comments

    My immediate reaction after the divorce was to change my Facebook status to “Widowed” because changing it to “divorced” just wasn’t final enough for me.

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  • Thanks for reminding me what an asshole you are with your habitual butt dialing
    Divorced. Now what?

    You’re Such an Ass, Your Butt Dialed Me…

    April 19, 2014 / No Comments

    I am so glad I did not answer the phone that day. Nothing ruins my calm faster than talking to mr horrible, except for voice mails from mr horrible.

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    Miss Me, Miss Me Good

    January 17, 2014 / No Comments

    It is 2014, the dawn of a new year and everything is going great until I get a text out of the blue that disrupts my calm… it’s a text message from mr horrible. What does he have to say to me? Something stupid about how he misses me and he wonders if I miss him. Dude, no.

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