My So Called Life
All the random ass shit that happens. Read at your own risk.
Day-to-day dispatches from a life that is technically ordinary and somehow never boring. Work problems, relationship observations, aging indignities, boundary violations, and the occasional moment of genuine clarity that makes all the rest of it worth it. The catch-all category for everything that doesn't fit neatly anywhere else — which, honestly, describes most of real life.New Year, Same Old Bullshit – Tales of a Bad Manager
My boss is a textbook bad manager — demotivating, micromanaging, biased — and it feels uncomfortably familiar. On toxic masculinity at work and recognizing the pattern when you've lived it before.
Male Pattern Grossness – The Man With 13 Kids and Opinions On Women’s Purpose
A man overshared at work, especially proud at having oppressed the woman in his life. Typical male pattern grossness.
Same Old Mistakes
I don't want to repeat the same old mistakes. In order to move forward, I have to take a long hard look at the past.
The COVID Diaries Day 669 – What is this Life?
669 days into the pandemic and things have taken a turn for the apathetic.
What Do You Know About Pressure?
The last three weeks of my work life have been rather intense. The feeling of being under a microscope is strong.




