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  • My So Called Life,  Marital Hiss

    Going Mental in the Rental

    December 2, 2011 /No Comments

    One month in the New Jersey rental. Still unpacking. Christmas in 23 days. The crockpot is the only thing keeping me sane. Certain people expect a meal when they get home.

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    Going Postal – Mailbox First World Problems

    December 1, 2011 /No Comments

    What's up with my weird New Jersey mailbox? Sorting through the options in mailboxes, a real first world problem.

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  • The Home Ec Files

    Falling Into Home Improvement

    September 24, 2010 /No Comments

    Fall in Hampton Roads means the beach weather lingers but the home improvement itch kicks in anyway. On planning a kitchen renovation and the particular madness of a dysfunctional work triangle.

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    How to run errands with children

    September 1, 2010 /No Comments

    Five kids, one errand run, and a stranger who wanted to know my secret. The answer is boring: say no, stay consistent, and never over-explain to an eight-year-old.

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    My So Called Life,  Marital Hiss

    Pool of Trouble

    February 26, 2010 /No Comments

    He deployed and left me with a pool I'd never maintained. It turned green. I sent him photos of everything except the backyard which contained the pool of trouble.

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