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  • Music roulette 4 - the latchkey shuffle
    Midlife Musings

    Music Roulette 4 ~ The Latchkey Shuffle

    June 4, 2026 /No Comments

    Research shows that the level of personal enjoyment, not whether the music is happy or sad, is what matters for potential therapeutic benefits. This is an important distinction for me because music for me is all over the place. Symptom of my Gen-X-aphilia. If you’ve missed some of the earlier installments, you can catch them here, here, and here. I’m all about the self-healing and showing improvement of any depressive symptoms. Let’s see what we get this time around:

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  • Music Roulette 3 - 120 Minutes
    Midlife Musings

    Music Roulette 3 ~ 120 Minutes

    May 21, 2026 /No Comments

    I set the shuffle loose again, and this round of Music Roulette resurfaced some deep, deep memories. An even more uncurated playlist than the first round or the second. I read somewhere that music and smells are tied to memories in the brain. That hearing one or smelling something specific will trigger the recall. They say the same thing about trauma, in particular about PTSD. That you’re not recalling the trauma, but instead your body is reliving it. Music can elicit strong emotional responses, too. Let’s see which way this one goes.

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  • Music roulette 2 - nevermind the algorithm
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    Music Roulette 2 ~ Nevermind the Algorithm

    April 28, 2026 /No Comments

    It’s time for another rendition of music roulette and the second uncurated playlist from my life. It’s been a hot minute since the first episode. For those of you just tuning in, there was a time when I made mix tapes. Now I make playlists. There’s a resurgence in the needs and wants to own one’s music. Whether it be in protest of streaming music, or pure nostalgia, the point stands that everyone loves music. And I enjoy the randomness of music in my life. Here we go:

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    Die Hard Is a Christmas Movie, and I Will Die on This Hill ~ 5 Reasons

    December 22, 2023 /No Comments

    This is the hill I will die upon: Die Hard is a Christmas Movie. And here are 5 reasons why. Come at me.

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    You’ve Got Mail Turns 25 – A Time Capsule of Disappearing Tech

    June 2, 2023 /No Comments

    You've Got Mail turns 25 - a time capsule film of obsolete technology. Memories from a much different time.

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