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    Divorced. Now what?

    Of Course I Know It’s Your Birthday

    June 29, 2026 /No Comments

    I managed his entire life for 14 years. Of course I know his birthday...Pretending otherwise would be stupid.

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    The Body of Evidence

    June 24, 2026 /No Comments

    Neighbors in Guatemala remember my mother as "El cuerpo." A force of nature. A woman they speak about in awe. I inherited her face. I'm trying to figure out if I also inherited the thing that broke her.

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    The Mother of All Resentment

    August 31, 2020 /No Comments

    Lunch with my mother brings up all kinds of resentment. Reminders that my mother is a narcissist.

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    How to Cope Through Post-Divorce Interactions With the Ex: When We Pretend That They’re Dead

    October 2, 2014 /No Comments

    mr horrible treats co-parenting like an extension of the marriage. I changed my Facebook status to Widowed because Divorced wasn't final enough. Pretending he's dead is a coping mechanism, not a lie

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    Grown Men Masquerading as Children

    September 7, 2013 /No Comments

    Reflections about having a man pretending to be incompetent to get out of parenting his children and the strain it created in the marriage.

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