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    Improper Expectations

    March 8, 2026 /No Comments

    We had only been in Guatemala two weeks, and my mother had already asked me three times if I was happy to be here. And each time I gave her the same answer: Yes, I was happy to be here.

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    How to Exorcise Your Mother – Demon Be Gone

    March 5, 2026 /No Comments

    Two months since she left. One month to remember what sleeping through the night feels like. Zero regrets. Demon be gone.

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    Palace of Delusion – The TikTok Trigger Incident

    March 4, 2026 /No Comments

    I made the mistake of laughing at something on TikTok and thinking that it would be a hoot to share it with my narcissist mother. Big mistake.

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    Blood Moon and Totality – One Eclipse at a Time

    March 3, 2026 /No Comments

    My complicated history with every eclipse. Is the blood moon tonight another omen? Or a moment to hope?

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    Time Flies When You’re Not Having Fun

    February 28, 2026 /No Comments

    Twelve years ago I wrote about the Year of the Horse. Time flew and I wasn't having fun. I was hopeful in 2014. I'm exhausted in 2026. Here we go again.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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