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  • Midlife Musings,  Living Single

    Fuck Valentine’s Day

    February 14, 2020 /No Comments

    I spent Valentine's Day alone at the bar of a drafthouse movie theatre. Don't wait for someone else to tell you that you are worthy.

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    Google Music is the Compact Solution for the Missing De La Soul Albums

    January 2, 2020 /No Comments

    De La Soul's early albums were missing from every streaming service. Google Music let me upload my own ripped CDs as a workaround. Update: the catalog is now on Spotify.

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    Decay of a Decade: Looking Back and Setting Better Goals

    December 31, 2019 /No Comments

    It is that time of year – the day before the New Year, time to take stock and plan ahead. In particular, it is time to evaluate the last 10 years and figure out how to better approach the years to come. I figure I can’t do much worse than I already have, what do I have to lose?

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    One Wild Night in the Seychelles

    December 29, 2019 /No Comments

    A wild night on Navy deployment: a hidden club in the Seychelles, a stranger who could really dance, and the shipmate ready to fight me over it. A look back.

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    Alone versus Lonely

    December 26, 2019 /No Comments

    After years alone post-divorce, I had to ask myself: am I at peace with my solitude, or am I just afraid? Here's how I'm trying to tell the difference.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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