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  • Divorced. Now what?

    To Be or Not to Be: Friends with the Ex

    March 1, 2016 /No Comments

    Can you be friends with the ex who treated you badly? For reasons of self-preservation, I can't.

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    This is for my absent father

    February 21, 2016 /No Comments

    My absent father found me on LinkedIn after 13 years of silence. He wasn't there when I was struggling. He doesn't get to show up now that I'm not.

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  • Divorced. Now what?,  Living Single

    You Don’t Get To String Me Along

    February 17, 2016 /No Comments

    Is the ex trying to string me along? He is making confusing statements and promises that reek of lies and manipulations. Song lyrics help.

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    Generational Differences

    February 14, 2016 /No Comments

    My son hates his grandmother. I can't claim neutrality. But I keep asking myself — did I teach him to hate her, or did she do that herself?

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  • Divorced. Now what?

    Divorce: When a Marriage Is Over

    July 2, 2015 /No Comments

    The Affleck/Garner divorce reminded me of mr horrible's drunk dial where he said he missed how easy he had it when we were married. No shit, Sherlock. I did everything.

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Writing about the random ass shit going on in my life since 2007. I pull no punches and use salty language. Read at your own risk.

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